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Monte had an adventure!

Bobby and I were unloading some things from the car the other night and tested the extra key.  Monte, always up for going to my Mom’s house for her human food treats, like pasta, jumped into the car numerous times.  He had just gotten a great bath from Alexandra that day and was smelling wonderful.  When Alex gives him baths, that’s usually when she’s most apt to have him spend the night in her room, so I didn’t think much of it when Monte didn’t come to the master bedroom where Bobby and I were, but it was rather odd that he was so quiet and didn’t come up in the morning for his usually nagging, since he knows I give him a special treat, making him sit and shake his paw, before I go to work.  My daughter’s door was open when I went downstairs, and she said she did not have Monte.  With a lump in my throat, I started searching the backyard and calling for him.  Knowing he was not the kind of dog to run away, even if there was a breach in the fence, I started looking in all corners.  Then, it struck me.  Sure enough, I pop my head into the dark (well-ventilated) garage to see him comfortably stretching and yawning from a long nap and peeking through the open window of my driver’s seat.  He was actually better off and more comfortable in the car than he would have been on the garage floor even if he had been big enough (he’s only seven pounds) to jump out of the window.  Excited, I freed him and he quietly and happily came to me and followed me inside the house without even any thirst or hunger, as I deliberately led him to his dishes.  I honestly don’t think he realized if he was stuck there ten minutes or the actual ten hours, but I felt very bad.  No matter what, I will make sure to acknowledge him before I go to bed every night from now on.

New man, new media to share

Introduced Bobby to “It’s Me or the Dog”, which taught me a lot about how to raise my puppy well.  He showed me some Monty Python, and in turn I showed him some Little Britain and Crank Yankers.  He is ready and willing to watch a lot of Streisand stuff to familiar himself with her.  His dad is a music teacher and a fan.  So far he’s gotten a good contrast of her by watching “Funny Girl” and “What’s Up Doc?”

Protected: Party Invite Page

After checking to make sure it’s not conflicting with any other major gay/bear events, including Bearracuda, I have finally picked a date for the next East Bay adult male party that I’m co-hosting with my man Bobby. As before, it’s a no frills, no theme, no pressure party for men which is largely social but play-friendly.   This invite/RSVP page is NOT navigable from my public site, nor is it indexable by any search engines. If you wish to be included among those confirmed, let me know which face picture you’d prefer to have posted. Also be sure to check back regularly before then to see who else RSVP’d with a picture. When: Saturday, October 9, 2010 starting @ 7:30pm Where: 914 Blossom Way, Hayward (Cherryland), CA 94541 What to bring: BYOB, drinks or snacks and TOWELS (swimsuits discouraged).

Please RSVP: Via email, live chat or text (preferably, or voice ) 917-330-6105 (please do not RSVP on third party web sites where I have a profile as I may not see it for weeks)

Protected: Housewarming/Welcome to Bobby Party

Bobby and Joe would like to invite you to their place in the East Bay for a casual pot -luck dinner.  We hope you can make it.

When: Friday, October 22, 2010 starting @ 7:00pm
Where: 914 Blossom Way, Hayward (Cherryland), CA 94541
What to bring: Something to eat or drink.
Please RSVP: Via email bobbyjoe@haydennet.com or text or voice 415-359-6214 or 917-330-6105.