Category Archives: Family

Candidate Jackie Elward Chat

The United Democrats of Southern Solano had a great chat with Jackie Elward. Among other things, this was a very personal dialog where I shared a very personal story of my own that Jackie and I have dealt with — namely our biracial children being teased.

She starts talking about her son’s ideation from being bullied around 9:20 into the video and I get to respond to a few things that she said around the 30 minute mark.

Early 55th birthday celebration

My daughter and my brother weren’t able to make it, but my nephew (who turned 16 three days before my 55th), my niece, sister and brother-in-law joined Shando and me today. Someone had given me a princess tiara, so I adorned that as they sang over a pride cake.

I joked that since it was technically the day after pride month, they should have insisted on half-price!

Brooke, Ken, Nicholas, Sabina, me and Shando.

My nephew and niece are so big!

Hayden Family History in Hawaii

I finally got around to posting juxtaposed pictures of my previous trips to Oahu and some of the key photos of my grandparents and parents from the 1950’s and 1970’s. My dad grew up for much of his childhood in Oahu, including when Hawaii became a state, and then later lived on Moloka’i when he himself was stationed there from about 1961-1963. This project was to take photographs in places where they were photographed decades earlier.

Check out my previous Oahu trips in 2009 and 2016. I will now have my 2022 trip added.

In 2009, my friend Kawika Mueller, who I had met on Maui the year before, helped me go to the places where my grandparents and parents had traveled which were recognizable on Oahu. I sort of recreated the shots thanks to Kawika.

My grandfather, Andrew Jackson Hayden, on the right with an unidentified man in the 1950’s at Nuuanu Pali State Park Lookout with views of the Koʻolau cliffs.
Me, Joseph Andrew Hayden, at Nuuana Pali Lookout in March, 2009 with the same rocks (now not ossified for some reason) and with a safety bar they must have added. This was the location of a historic battle, per Hawaiian custom.
Same lookout with me stepping to my right from the 2009 photo above for a different view.
Then me again back in 2016 in the same spot 2016.
This is me again back in November 2022.
Entrance to park in 2009.
Here are my parents in February 1973 looking down at Hanauma Bay State Park.
Me in 2009 at Hanauma Bay State Park.
This is me in November 2022.
My (step) grandmother, June Warner Hayden, in the 1950’s in front of the statute of King Kamaehameha in downtown Honolulu in front of the palace.
Me in front of King Kamaehameha in 2009. Understandably the statue seems less accessible when I got there.
1950’s Waimea Falls
2016 Waimea Falls – Shando went in the water and I took some video.
My parents, Floyd William and Giuseppina Hayden, in February 1973, just outside the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific Punchbowl Hawaii.
Me in basically the same spot with Diamond Head in the background in 2009.
My grandmother June and someone (possibly my great-grandmother Ann Hayden) in front of Aloha Tower in downtown Honolulu. I have a bunch of other pictures from this area with my grandparents, but they are low-resolution black and white photos. I suspect this is where people arrived by ship in the 1950’s.
Me in front of Aloha Tower in 2009.
This is me in front of Aloha Tower in November 2022.
My father and his step-mother June were probably on the walk to Waimea Falls. I am guessing my dad is about 12 here and he was born in 1939, so that would make this the early 1950’s.
Me on the walk back to Waimea Falls in 2016.
Grandmother June and another woman in Honolulu sitting on a concrete beach wall in the 1950’s.
This is me in 2009 sitting on a similar concrete wall which appears to be shorter with Diamondhead in the background.

Catalan Magazine article about my parents

A woman in Catalonia wrote me to ask for permission to do a story on my parents, who I mention on my blog lived in the northern part of Catalonia near Girona and the French border. Our entire family lived there but my siblings were so young that they do not have as clear memories as I do. I know the picture of my parents featured in the article was one cherished by my mom. On this same cement slab is where I learned how to ride a bike. We lived there from 1975-1977, when we moved to live on base in New York City on Governor’s Island. I remember celebrating the American Bicentennial on base in Spain. It was quite a culture shock to move to NYC. The article is written in Catalan, a Latin-based language of the region of Spain where we lived.

Here is the original photo:

Enjoy!

Alex First Post-Covid Visit

Alexandra and her boyfriend Davy visited us for the first time since the start of the Covid era. We drove around to the Bolinas area and stopped in a very cool wooded park downtown nearby, then went on to Mount Tam’s lookout. Eventually, we went to the beach and enjoyed a beautiful evening with our two younger dogs and our guest dog Fluffly. We stopped for a snack in town as well. It was a lovely day with sightseeing in some of the corners of California many rarely venture to.